Ah the spark, where does it go? What was once a thrilling encounter can over time become one of familiarity in long-term relationships. Keeping the spark alive is something you have to work at as naturally, over time, the initial blaze of passion may simmer down to a warm glow, leading many couples to seek ways to rekindle that early fire.
Well, if this sounds like you, then you are in the right place to discover just how to get the spark back in a relationship. Whilst we can’t promise anything, the following tips can be just what you need to recover the lost spark and make it better than ever.
Rejuvenating the spark is not about grand gestures but introducing new elements of surprise, excitement, and intimacy. From the playful exploration of adult sex toys to the allure of sexy clothing and outfits and adding other sensual essentials, there are plenty of ways to bring new energy and connection into your relationship.
So, let us help you break the monotony and deepen your connection with these ideas.Top of Form
#1 – Communicate Much, Much More
Yes, it’s an obvious one, but the foundation of reigniting the spark in any relationship really does start in open, honest communication.
It's crucial to express your desires, fantasies, and boundaries in a safe and non-judgmental space. Look to have regular relationship check-ins where both of you can share your feelings, what you appreciate in each other, and where you believe there could be some improvement, such as things you wish they knew about sex.
This will not only strengthen your emotional bond but also pave the way for exploring new sexual desires and experiences together (BDSM anyone?). Remember, understanding each other's needs and comfort levels is the first step towards introducing exciting changes.
#2 – Introduce Something New
Monotony is the nemesis of passion. Introducing new elements into your relationship can significantly elevate the excitement level.
Consider exploring adult toys designed to pleasure both partners, such as couples vibrators or dual stimulation toys like vibrating cock rings, which can be a thrilling addition to your intimacy.
If toys are a new venture for you, start with something simple and user-friendly. Additionally, changing the setting of your intimate encounters can also inject novelty – try getting down in a different room or even booking a hotel room to escape the routine of home.
#3 – Dress to Impress
Never underestimate the power of dressing up for your partner. Slipping into something sexy or unexpected can reignite the lost spark in a relationship where physical attraction might have been dulled by familiarity. Explore sexy lingerie, role-play costumes, or simply an outfit that you know your partner loves.
Here at Mega Pleasure, we have a range of options to suit every taste and body type, including sexy plus-size lingerie and men’s sexy costumes, ensuring you find something that makes you feel irresistible. This small change can lead to exciting anticipation and renewed desire.
#4 – Educate Yourselves Together
Growth together can also come from learning together. Away from the toys, take the time to watch educational videos on sexual wellness, read articles, or even join a workshop or webinar together.
This shared journey of exploration not only brings you closer but also opens up new avenues for pleasure you might not have considered before. You can even find plenty of tips and resources here in our blog that can help expand your sexual knowledge and comfort zone, fostering a deeper connection both physically and emotionally.
#5 – Prioritise Date Nights
In the hustle of daily life, it's easy to let romance slide away to the back of the queue. Committing to regular date nights can make a world of difference here when looking at how to bring back the spark in a relationship.
Whether it's a fancy dinner out, a movie night at home, or something more adventurous, the key is to focus entirely on each other. To spice things up, incorporate playful challenges or sexy adult games. These special moments remind you why you fell in love in the first place and help keep the spark alive.Top of Form
#6 – Experiment with Sensory Play
Sensory play can introduce an exhilarating new dimension to your intimacy. By focusing on the senses of touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound, you can discover new ways to pleasure each other.
Experiment with masks and blindfolds to heighten anticipation and touch, or introduce aromatic massage oils that can make every caress more intoxicating. Soft feathers and whips, or silk ties and bondage rope and tape can be used for gentle teasing that ignites the skin.
Our selection of sensory play accessories is designed to cater to a range of preferences, offering you and your partner a world of new experiences to explore together.
#7 – Take a Romantic Getaway
Sometimes, a change of scenery can be the perfect way to rekindle your relationship. Plan a romantic getaway, whether it's a cosy cabin in the woods, a beachside resort, or an exciting city adventure.
When there is no spark in a relationship, the key is to step away from the daily routine and dedicate uninterrupted time to each other. Don't forget to pack a few surprises, like a new toy or a sexy piece of lingerie or hosiery from our collection, to make the trip even more memorable. This escape can provide the perfect backdrop to reconnect and rediscover each other in a deeper, more passionate way.
#8 – Engage in Mutual Activities
Engaging in activities that both of you enjoy can strengthen your bond and inject fun into your relationship. Whether it's cooking a meal together, taking a dance class, or hiking through nature, these shared experiences can strengthen intimacy and connection and recover the lost spark in a relationship.
To add an element of excitement, incorporate playful bets or challenges into these activities, with sensual rewards for the winner. It's a light-hearted way to flirt and engage with each other, reminding you of the joy in your relationship.
#9 – Explore Each Other’s Fantasies
Opening up about your deepest sexual fantasies can be both exhilarating and daunting. However, sharing these intimate details can lead to a deeper understanding and connection.
Approach this conversation with an open mind and heart, ensuring there is a foundation of trust and consent. Once you're both comfortable, consider exploring these fantasies together.
We offer a variety of toys and accessories that can help bring your desires to life, whether you're interested in mild role-play or more adventurous bondage and fetish scenarios. The goal is mutual enjoyment and exploration, so take it at a pace that feels right for both of you.
#10 – Invest in Quality Time Together
Finally, it's important to remember that reigniting the spark doesn't always require expensive gifts, exotic toys, or adventures. Sometimes it's as simple as investing in more quality time together, without distractions.
Going to bed together at the same time, taking a bath together, or enjoying a quiet evening can be profoundly intimate. Incorporating couples’ sex toys designed for mutual enjoyment can also enhance these moments, making even the simplest of times together special and memorable.
No Spark, No Problem!
With these 10 tips, you’ll (hopefully) have no problem getting the spark back in a relationship. As long as you both want to rekindle this, you’ll find it was always there, just hiding behind our busy lives.
Be sure to check out our website for even further inspiration to help you light a fire under your relationship. For more insights from our blog, read all about 5 sexual fetishes you never knew existed, and 4 of the best Spring sex positions to try.
